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About Me

A warm welcome to Dara counselling service, I’m Shirley, a qualified and experienced counsellor. Here’s my story on why I became a counsellor. I established Dara counselling service in 2021, very shortly afterward I lost two very close family members my mother and sister, so, in part I dedicate my practice to their legacy of strong supportive women in my life, despite at times struggling with their own difficulties. Growing up in a single parent household in a large family with limited finances was a challenge, but we had support from each other.

Shirley business owner, Clinical counsellor clinical supervisor, member of ACA, menopause specialist, down to earth, friendly

In 2008, whilst juggling my own family, I began providing respite care to children/teenagers whose families were struggling with issues such as domestic violence or other difficulties such as a cancer diagnosis or acquired brain injuries. This was the beginning of my understanding on how trauma shapes our lives and experiences and I was fascinated. The respite work led me to complete a Postgraduate diploma in Psychology, afterward, I started working with families & foster carers in complex case management. Even though the work was challenging I enjoyed the holistic aspect of case management but felt a strong desire to work more therapeutically with clients. Once again, I returned to study, this time to complete my master’s in counselling and I moved into counselling roles with clients who experienced sexual abuse either recent or historic, in addition to other complex trauma presentations.

 

I know I would not have made it through some difficult times in my life without the support from family, friends and professionals who helped me to get back on track. They did not do the work for me, but they helped by listening and encouraging me when I felt like giving up. Sometimes, we either don't have someone to turn to or don't want to involve those in our our support networks because we are not ready or we are unable to make sense of our experiences. Instead we may seek professional support. I work intuitively with clients and bring a wealth of experience towards my work with a kind, caring and gentle approach.

Therapist

Flexible appointments options available:

  • Face to face

  • Online/Zoom – evening appointments available

  • Phone 

  • Weekend appointments available

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